對一台腳踏車有感

不知道大家有沒有類似的經驗，曾經很想要一樣東西羨慕別人都有，直到真的能擁有時卻不符合自己的期待。好比當大家都開始騎多段變速萬元腳踏車時，自己好不容易盼到的是兩邊手把垂彩鬚的古早lady katacha。這時該怎麼辦？怨嘆命運作弄一腳把它踢爛？還是帶著它馳騁大小景點挑戰它的極限也挑戰自己雙腿的變速能力？這樣的假設前提是能安然待在腳踏車上不尖叫超過10分鐘的運動愛好者。成長過程中虛榮的我不知碰過多少次類似上述的兩難，最後我告訴自己：

想要更好的，就先讓自己變得更好。只有屬於我的，才是最好的！

同樣道理可用在真愛的尋覓。對愛情的想像誰都有，但是天上掉下來未必就是真愛，這點亡小纏告訴過我們。有時不是得不到，而是自己先設限詛咒了自己。我是個很有創意的人，所以不喜歡自我重覆也不愛碎嘴，不過最近經歷的一些事讓我不得不佩服自己先知先覺，以下這段文字出自於一部愛情小品Love & Other Disasters，再引一次，個人認為可以用來解公主王子夢的毒：

Jacks:
Love isn't always a lightning bolt, you know?
Maybe sometimes it's just a choice.

Pete:
Well, that's easy for you to say!
You're flying to Argentina to meet the love of your life!

Jacks:
That's just it. I don't know that Paolo's the love of my life'
but I've decided to give him the chance to be.
Maybe true love is a decision.
You know, a decision to take a chance with somebody.
To give to somebody without worrying whether they'll give anything back.
Or if they're gonna hurt you, or if they really are the one.
Maybe love isn't something that happens to you.
Maybe it's something you have to choose.

Once for awhile, we don’t believe we are lovable, we cannot believe someone would love us fully unconditionally.

So we get insecure, we give up when we don’t get what we want

We thought the only reason that we are not getting what we want is that they are not that into us. But the truth is, we make a wish and leave others only one chance to make it come true. Once they fail, we say they don’t love us.

值星官說：有夢很美，但也要有愛相隨。